I wrote my last blog post the night before we were leaving Bull Run and headed south. A lot happened on our trip to Mount Pleasant so I'm doing this update on our progress from Virginia to Florida.
On Tuesday morning I woke up at 7:30 AM (very early for me) and noticed that it seemed to be unusually light outside. I peeked through the blinds next to the bed and saw what I've been asking for--snow! Five inches of soft, fluffy snow. The weather report the night before said that there was a chance of snow for Tuesday but that if it did (and it was a big if) there would only be an inch or less. Well, we had five inches at 7:30 AM and it was still snowing.
Even though we had done some of the work needed to get us on the road by 11:00 AM or so the snow whipped us into high-gear (after having coffee). First thing you'll learn about traveling with dogs is they come first and if they don't you're going to have a problem. We got Charlotte and Gracie up and out the door into the snow knowing that the novelty of snow wouldn't be lost on them and that it might take a little longer to get around to business than it usually does. They did not disappoint. Gracie looked around at the snow and decided to dig a hole. I guess she was wondering what happened to all of the sticks, leaves and dirt she usually has to play with. After tugging her around for a while trying to get her to finish her morning rituals we got her back into the trailer. Charlotte wasn't much better. She loved the snow and was running back and forth, spinning and slipping, and having a good time. It took her a few minutes to get down to business. Once they were taken care of we went about the process of getting the truck and trailer cleaned off so we could hook everything up and get on the road before much more snow fell. Getting ready took a little more time than usual. Everything was cold and doing things with gloves on slowed us down but we got hooked up and were soon on our way. We also broke part of the trailer hitch in the process of getting things hooked up--more on that later.
The Bull Run Park guys had already been through the park clearing the roads so once we got out of our spot we had good roads in the park. Regardless I had the 4WD engaged and we chugged right along up the hill to the entrance of the park. Of course when we got to the park entrance the road hadn't been plowed or even really driven on so the 4WD became a necessity. We hauled Mabel Rubain up the hill, slipping and sliding a little, to the main highway which was totally packed with morning commuters, none who wanted to let a travel trailer get in front of them on a snowy highway. It took a bit but someone finally took notice and let us in.
Remember that part of the trailer we broke? Well, part of it was hanging too low for safe clearance on the highway so we had to get it fixed before we could go too much further. Everyone at Bull Run told us that if we had any problems, questions or needed anything RV associated to call Restless Wheels. This is now going to sound like a Restless Wheels promotional piece but these guys really came through for us. We got there and within 30 minutes they had the part replaced with a used one and were only charged for the labor to put it on. Here we were in the middle of a big unexpected snowstorm with a broken RV and a 6 hour trip down south ahead of us and these guys totally made it as simple as they could. Thank you Restless Wheels in Centreville, VA. They certainly lived up to their reputation. I plan on doing something I rarely do and that is give them a great rating on YELP.
With our trailer fixed and still in the midst of the unexpected snowstorm we got back on the highway and headed towards I-95 south, then over to I-85 south and finally into Charlotte. It took us about 12 hours to get from Bull Run Regional Park to the KOA in Fort Mill, SC.
The KOA was a welcome sight for all of us. Matt and I were both tired from the day's events and the dogs were tired of being cooped up in the truck all day. Finding the KOA was pretty easy as they have giant yellow KOA signs on the road. We pulled into the parking lot and it appeared that the office was closed. It said on the website that they were open until 11:00 PM and it was just a little past 9:00 PM. The sign on the door of the KOA directed us the gas station next door to check in after hours. Apparently the KOA, gas station and a little bar were all owned by the same family and housed in the same building. Registration was quick and we paid for a pull through site so we could avoid having to back into a site late in the evening. The pull though wasn't exactly what we expected. We were at the top of a hill on uneven ground and ended up jockeying back and forth to try and get as level as possible. After a couple of attempts we decided to let it go and packed it in for the night.
The next morning we were up fairly early and headed 45 minutes back up I-85 to Kannapolis, NC to see my mother. She took a bad fall about a month ago and fractured her neck. She was sent to a rehab facility and will hopefully get to move back to assisted living soon. The rehab hospital is small and cars are parked all over the campus on the grass, up on curbs, on the side of hills and just about everywhere else you could park a vehicle. We pulled in assuming that delivery trucks must deliver equipment and supplies to the facility and so the driveway on the side of the rehab facility must logically go all the way around. With that in mind we found a spot where we could pull the truck and trailer off to the side of the road and still leave plenty of room for people to get around us. That was not a very smooth move but I wouldn't know that until after visiting with Mom. When we got back out to the truck we did what we should have done first and looked to see if the road actually went completely around the facility. Imagine our disappointment (and sinking feeling) when we discovered that the road was a dead end and the only thing back there was a loading area and two dumpsters and, of course, more cars parked in every conceivable spot.
We thought we had a plan and could back the trailer into an empty spot near where we were parked and turn around that way but after 30 minutes of back and forth we realized that we were stuck. We were attracting a fair sized audience and causing some problems for staff that were trying to park and get into work. One of the staff members watching us came out and told s there was a truck turnaround behind the facility that we could use. Thinking that we'd be good as gold we drove further down the road into the facility to find that with the length of our vehicle and the fact that there were cars parked in every little slot that could be parked in we weren't getting out that way either.
That left one option--backing out. It turns out that one of our audience members was the head of maintenance. Rather than just stand and watch he came out to lend a hand. He told us that even experienced truck drivers can't get turned around back there and sometimes have to back all the way out. So that's what we ended up doing. We backed all the way around the building and out to the front entrance. From the time we started trying to get out of the rehab facility to the time we actually waved goodbye was an hour. That was one long hour.
Safely on the road again we headed back down I-85 and onto I-77 and finally onto I-26 and onto Mount Pleasant where we checked into the KOA at about 7:00 PM. We were tired, the dogs were tired and everyone was hungry. We got the dogs situated watered and fed and headed out to have a late dinner with our friends Mina and Sarah. What a day! What a trip!
This morning we woke up to no water. It got down to 20 degrees last night so we guessed that the hose had frozen and didn't think too much of it. When I took Charlotte out I realized it might not have just been frozen water hoses. There were multiple geysers throughout the park including our site. The overnight temps had caused some broken pipes which were spraying water into really cool ice sculptures. We had doctor's appointments today so by the time we were back the water issue was fixed.
Here's what we've learned. Restless Wheels lives up to their reputation. That is really uncommon these days. Always make sure you can get out of any place you can get into. I knew this in my head since it's just plain simple common sense but now I have a life lesson to enjoy with it. Gracie will pee in the trailer if you don't take her out as soon as she wakes up. She also has added digging holes to her list of activities she enjoys.
That's the update. We're in Mt. Pleasant for the next couple of days and then we're headed down to the Tampa area to warm up.
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Monday, January 5, 2015
Til We Meet Again
We've been here at Bull Run in a camp host position since mid-September. It has been a great experience. The hosts were terrific, would help at the drop of a hat if you needed it, and on top of that were totally accepting of the fact that I have a non-traditional lifestyle (although it appears to be getting more traditional). We got to visit with my Aunt Dee and spent many Friday nights watching old movies and trying to remember who the actors were and what else they had done. We had a blast doing that and got to watch some very good movies. I would sometimes look up the movie on my iPhone to figure out some actor we were watching. After a while she wold ask me to look up an actor on my little computer. Always the technology maven. She usually has some little tidbit of information about my early life or some scandalous family history but not this time. She is the one who showed me a picture of my genetic father and spilled the beans that my great grandmother was an American Indian I don't know whether she's told me all she knows or there's some secrets yet to be revealed! I guess I'll have to wait.
My father's passing anniversary was on January 3rd. That was a little tough since he's only been gone for two years now. I try and have happy thoughts about him rather than feel sad. He was a remarkable man, a great father and that man had some serious math skills. When we would go to the neurologist he knew there's be a mental acuity test so on our way into the office he'd practice so he knew the date, who was president, where he lived, and what his children's names were. Most of the time they weren't hard questions he'd pass them with flying colors. Sometimes, just to let him show off a little, I'd ask him what the square root of 12 was and he'd spit it out like a calculator. That alway impressed the neurologist and I think made Dad feel a little less sick. He would love this adventure we're on.
It looks like our last night at Bull Run will be a cold one. We've got both heaters going and it's nice and cozy here in Mabel Rubain. We're headed to Charlotte tomorrow (Tuesday the 6th) to check on my mother and then to Charleston to see some friends and get in to see our doctors. This is one thing we haven't quite worked out. Our doctors want to see us periodically before renewing our prescriptions so we have to make sure we get by Charleston every 6 months or so. It's not a huge problem night now but if we decide to make a trip out West it could be a problem. So far our physicians have been good about calling in prescriptions for us wherever we are but we don't want to get to a point where we run out of something and need to see some random doctor to get a refill. They all know about our travel plans and are working with us. We are lucky to have some very good doctors. I had some work to do tonight so Matt is doing a some travel prep. Getting things properly stowed and ready to pull out in the morning. He just poured laundry detergent into the toilet and told me all the shaking as we go down the road would clean it out. I see a huge mess when we get to a park with a sewer connection. Can you imagine the bubbles coming from our sewer line as we empty our tanks. Reminds me of an I Love Lucy show. We'll see if it works. I'm skeptical.
The weather for our trip out of here is supposed to be a wintery mix. Lovely to drive in but even better to tow a trailer in. We thought we were getting out of the cold when we head south but the cold front that is parked on the East coast is going to have nighttime temperatures in the teens in Charlotte where we stay first. We've gotten pretty good at cold weather camping. The water lines have frozen tonight so we'll have to deal with that in the morning but were warm. That's what counts. Tomorrow we drive from Bull Run to a KOA park in Fort Mill, SC. The mapping software says our travel time is 6 hours but since we're towing the trailer it will be more like 8 or 9. Charlotte and Gracie will need frequent stops to get out and stretch. They both are pretty good in the car. Charlotte sleeps in Matt's lap the whole way and Gracie finds some impossible corner to get herself wedged into for the duration. At one point, on the way up here, she was so out of it I was afraid she had died. She hadn't moved in hours--but no, she was just sound asleep. Gracie basically has three modes eat, sleep, and poop. Anything outside of those activities she doesn't like. She'd getting really fat and I know that Dr. Benton, our vet, is going to mention it. She's on phenobarbital for a seizure disorder and that is known to cause weight gain but she's really way too fat. We could all three spend a little more time on walks.
Time to get out of the cold and back down to warmer weather. We plan on finally arriving in Dade City by the 14th or so and we'll be there for a couple of months. No camp host duties there so I can focus on work some more. I didn't say goodbye to the friends I've made in the park but told them that we hope we'd see them in another park along the way. So 'Til We Meet Again…
Monday, December 8, 2014
Lessons Learned
We've finally discovered how to stay warm in the trailer. This may seem to be a little late to the game but at least we figured it out. We have a little electric IR heater that will keep the trailer warm down to about 40 degrees. After that it struggles and the inside temperature begins to drop. Since you can only wear so much clothing before you have problems moving around our tiny house it becomes necessary to introduce some additional heat to the situation. That's where the gas fired furnace comes in. We set that at about 65 degrees and then turn on the IR heater. When the IR heater can't keep up the furnace kicks in and brings the temp back up to a point where the IR heater can keep it warm for a while. Running the furnace alone burns through a lot of gas in a really short time. It's not a very efficient furnace. When you're outside and the furnace is running it sounds like a jet engine and it is spewing hot exhaust. But we've figured it out and things are nice and toasty in Mable Rubain.
It's cold out tonight. Our local weather station says it's 34 and the "feels like" temperature is 26 but it feels a lot colder here in the park. The furnace has been cycling on and off most of the evening and our heat strategy seems to be working! Matt just came in after taking Gracie out and said he thinks it may be snowing. I love that. It snowed just before Thanksgiving and we had about half an inch that hung around until the next day. I loved that and hope that we'll get a little more snow. Nothing dramatic that will have the furnace on day and night but enough to make the Festival of Lights here at the park even more beautiful.
I work in the woodpile this week. Yes, again. I seem to get it more often that anyone else. Maybe if I screw it up they'll let me slide until January when we head down south. One of the splitters froze up because someone ran it without oil in it (not me, I had other duties that week) but whoever it was didn't say anything. I was the one who discovered it and I got the stink-eye from maintenance but no one actually said anything. Hey––it wasn't me. I promise. This week Santa's Village is open and one of the events there is to make s'mores and drink hot chocolate. That means that I have to haul split wood up to Santa's Village several times per day on Wednesday through Sunday. I don't mind splitting the wood. I just don't like moving it around.
The good thing about working in the wood pit is that those weeks are weeks where I lose a lot of weight. Since arriving here in September I've lost about 2 lbs. per week. Not bad for not really trying. Walking the dogs, walking around to my jobs and not eating like a horse seems to be the magical combination. It's the simplest formula, total calories in need to be less than total calories out. Lesson learned here is that you'll lose with that combination (and working in the woodpile).
We do have one luxury that we just have to have––wash and fold service for our laundry. If we do it ourselves at the laundromat we spend about $18 and it takes about 2 hours from wash to dry and then fold. We found a nice little laundry over in Manassas that will do a weeks worth of laundry for between $20 and $25. Even better they'll get it back to us the same day. Another lesson learned.
I managed to burst a tire on the truck. I think it was a defect in the tire. I pulled up onto the road and there was a bit of a gap between the road and the ground I was on. When I pulled up the tire burst. It was about 10:00 PM so I pulled it over to the side of the road and left it until morning when there was more light. I called Good Sam roadside service and was very surprised when the guy showed up in about 30 minutes. He even knew how to get the tire from under the truck, where the jack was in the back of the truck and he put everything back in place after changing the tire in very short order. This was a dramatic departure from my experience with AAA. They routinely quote at least an hour and then show up anywhere from an hour and a half to 2 hours later. Other than having a busted tire the whole experience was quite refreshing.
We head south on January 4th. We'll stop in Charlotte to see my mother and then head to Charleston for doctor's appointments and to see friends. After that we'll go to Dade City to stay out of he cold and visit Matt's mother. After that who knows. We, by in large, worked out all of the kinks in working while on the road so where we go is up to us. I'd like a trip to Key West at some point so I can go snorkeling. Sitting here in the cold make that sound so warm and inviting. That means we'll be here for Christmas and New Years baring any emergencies that call us back south sooner.
Time to take a look outside and see if it's snowing yet. Let's hope.
It's cold out tonight. Our local weather station says it's 34 and the "feels like" temperature is 26 but it feels a lot colder here in the park. The furnace has been cycling on and off most of the evening and our heat strategy seems to be working! Matt just came in after taking Gracie out and said he thinks it may be snowing. I love that. It snowed just before Thanksgiving and we had about half an inch that hung around until the next day. I loved that and hope that we'll get a little more snow. Nothing dramatic that will have the furnace on day and night but enough to make the Festival of Lights here at the park even more beautiful.
I work in the woodpile this week. Yes, again. I seem to get it more often that anyone else. Maybe if I screw it up they'll let me slide until January when we head down south. One of the splitters froze up because someone ran it without oil in it (not me, I had other duties that week) but whoever it was didn't say anything. I was the one who discovered it and I got the stink-eye from maintenance but no one actually said anything. Hey––it wasn't me. I promise. This week Santa's Village is open and one of the events there is to make s'mores and drink hot chocolate. That means that I have to haul split wood up to Santa's Village several times per day on Wednesday through Sunday. I don't mind splitting the wood. I just don't like moving it around.
The good thing about working in the wood pit is that those weeks are weeks where I lose a lot of weight. Since arriving here in September I've lost about 2 lbs. per week. Not bad for not really trying. Walking the dogs, walking around to my jobs and not eating like a horse seems to be the magical combination. It's the simplest formula, total calories in need to be less than total calories out. Lesson learned here is that you'll lose with that combination (and working in the woodpile).
We do have one luxury that we just have to have––wash and fold service for our laundry. If we do it ourselves at the laundromat we spend about $18 and it takes about 2 hours from wash to dry and then fold. We found a nice little laundry over in Manassas that will do a weeks worth of laundry for between $20 and $25. Even better they'll get it back to us the same day. Another lesson learned.
I managed to burst a tire on the truck. I think it was a defect in the tire. I pulled up onto the road and there was a bit of a gap between the road and the ground I was on. When I pulled up the tire burst. It was about 10:00 PM so I pulled it over to the side of the road and left it until morning when there was more light. I called Good Sam roadside service and was very surprised when the guy showed up in about 30 minutes. He even knew how to get the tire from under the truck, where the jack was in the back of the truck and he put everything back in place after changing the tire in very short order. This was a dramatic departure from my experience with AAA. They routinely quote at least an hour and then show up anywhere from an hour and a half to 2 hours later. Other than having a busted tire the whole experience was quite refreshing.
We head south on January 4th. We'll stop in Charlotte to see my mother and then head to Charleston for doctor's appointments and to see friends. After that we'll go to Dade City to stay out of he cold and visit Matt's mother. After that who knows. We, by in large, worked out all of the kinks in working while on the road so where we go is up to us. I'd like a trip to Key West at some point so I can go snorkeling. Sitting here in the cold make that sound so warm and inviting. That means we'll be here for Christmas and New Years baring any emergencies that call us back south sooner.
Time to take a look outside and see if it's snowing yet. Let's hope.
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
Baby It's Cold Outside
As I write this it is 25 degrees outside and falling. The low in the park is predicted to be about 23. So much for easing into fall. Our little space heater is struggling to keep the temperature at 68 degrees and I am sure it will struggle even more when it hits 23 outside. We're dressed for the cold and already sitting in bed which for now is the warmest place around. I've got the heating pad on my ankle so I'm relatively warm. The heater we have is rated to 1200 square feet. We're only 308 (by my calculation) so the heater should be able to handle this weather with no problem. It's not. Matt says it's probably because we have no insulation in the walls. Could be. He's been putting shrink wrap on the windows and ceiling vents which seems to help. You can feel the cold radiating from the windows when you get close. Not good. We'll have to supplement the space heater with the gas furnace. That will keep us warmer.
Showering at this temperature can be tricky. There are 5 shower rooms that open directly to the outside of the bath house. They aren't heated so when you first go into the shower it's freezing. You can heat it up a little by running the hot water for a while before you get undressed. Once you're done you have to put on a lot of clothes for the walk back to the trailer. Not going to be fun doing that each day when it's 25 outside. It's all part of the adventure.
Things here at the campground are pretty quiet. The cold weather has eliminated most of the tent campers and the only campers left are in RVs. Our water hose is frozen so we're using water in the fresh water tank. It's located inside the trailer's shell so it doesn't freeze. We have about 3 days worth of water left so we need the temperatures to go up for a while. I'm not sure that's going to be the case. The weather reports are calling for possible show showers on Thursday. That will be fun.
My job last week was to clean the bath house. On Sundays one of the tasks is to disinfect the bath house with a spray on disinfectant/cleaner. You basically spray down everything, scrub, and then rinse with water. It takes about three hours to do the entire bath house. Sunday night when I was just about to start on the ladies room (which as usual was a total and complete mess) someone stepped out of the dark and asked if it was ok to use the rest room. In the dark, and not being able to hear well, I thought it was a man and I said the men's room was done but to be careful that the floor was wet. It turns out it was a woman. I was so embarrassed. In my defense she was dressed like a man, her voice gravelly from smoking, and it was dark. It reminded me of my time in the laboratory when I would assume big women were going to have babies and ask them if they knew what they were having. After making several mistakes I learned to keep my mouth shut and just draw the blood.
The Festival of Lights is scheduled to start on Thursday night. We've only seen parts of the display so on Thursday we'll get to see the entire show. I worked on some of the displays so I'm curious to see how they turned out. The festival runs to January 4th. One of our challenges is getting in and out of the park during the light show. Hosts who have been here through the light show tell us it's almost impossible to get in and out during the show since the roads all become one-way. To get out of the park you have to follow the light show crowd though the park and out the back entrance. To get back in the park you have to cut through the soccer fields and down a dirt road to get to the campground and miss the line of cars. This is going to be inconvenient to say the least. Driving up to the soccer fields in the snow will require 4WD which would be kind of fun, so there's that.
I'm taking Aunt Dee to see the lights on Friday. She is very excited. She had me write it on her calendar and has called me at least once to make sure we were still going. We're going to see the lights and go to dinner. A big outing for her.
Today was an interesting day for the state of South Carolina. The Fourth District Court of Appeals denied the state's request for an emergency stay to prevent marriage equality in the state. The court also said the state had to recognize marriages performed in other states. This is a very bad day for Nicki Haley and our buffoonish Attorney General Alan Wilson. Both of them essentially wasted the states money fighting a losing battle. I have a hard time believing that their fight was anything but a show to ingratiate themselves to the conservative evangelical right and to further their political careers. In this they have won. This wasn't about the right to marry, this was about politics. I'm happy for my friends who are in SC. They can get married now and those that are married are officially recognized. I'm also proud of my church, the Unitarian Church in Charleston, for actively participating in the fight and for openly welcoming those in search of a wedding venue in a place where they can make that forever commitment.
My friend Sarah Familar-Ragsdale is planning on marrying people on Friday, November 21st 2014 at Washington Square Park. If you'd like her to officiate your wedding you can contact her at Sarah@LiveTheElements.com, or 843-729-3635. If you like to keep up with her in real-time like Elemental Weddings - Wedding Officiant on Facebook or on Twitter at Live The Elements. If something happens and they have to move they'll update Facebook and tweet their location. When you get to the park you'll see their sign. Best of all they are doing this as a give-back to our community so it's free!
Time to snuggle under the covers and watch a movie. Baby It's Cold Outside!
Todd
Showering at this temperature can be tricky. There are 5 shower rooms that open directly to the outside of the bath house. They aren't heated so when you first go into the shower it's freezing. You can heat it up a little by running the hot water for a while before you get undressed. Once you're done you have to put on a lot of clothes for the walk back to the trailer. Not going to be fun doing that each day when it's 25 outside. It's all part of the adventure.
Things here at the campground are pretty quiet. The cold weather has eliminated most of the tent campers and the only campers left are in RVs. Our water hose is frozen so we're using water in the fresh water tank. It's located inside the trailer's shell so it doesn't freeze. We have about 3 days worth of water left so we need the temperatures to go up for a while. I'm not sure that's going to be the case. The weather reports are calling for possible show showers on Thursday. That will be fun.
My job last week was to clean the bath house. On Sundays one of the tasks is to disinfect the bath house with a spray on disinfectant/cleaner. You basically spray down everything, scrub, and then rinse with water. It takes about three hours to do the entire bath house. Sunday night when I was just about to start on the ladies room (which as usual was a total and complete mess) someone stepped out of the dark and asked if it was ok to use the rest room. In the dark, and not being able to hear well, I thought it was a man and I said the men's room was done but to be careful that the floor was wet. It turns out it was a woman. I was so embarrassed. In my defense she was dressed like a man, her voice gravelly from smoking, and it was dark. It reminded me of my time in the laboratory when I would assume big women were going to have babies and ask them if they knew what they were having. After making several mistakes I learned to keep my mouth shut and just draw the blood.
The Festival of Lights is scheduled to start on Thursday night. We've only seen parts of the display so on Thursday we'll get to see the entire show. I worked on some of the displays so I'm curious to see how they turned out. The festival runs to January 4th. One of our challenges is getting in and out of the park during the light show. Hosts who have been here through the light show tell us it's almost impossible to get in and out during the show since the roads all become one-way. To get out of the park you have to follow the light show crowd though the park and out the back entrance. To get back in the park you have to cut through the soccer fields and down a dirt road to get to the campground and miss the line of cars. This is going to be inconvenient to say the least. Driving up to the soccer fields in the snow will require 4WD which would be kind of fun, so there's that.
I'm taking Aunt Dee to see the lights on Friday. She is very excited. She had me write it on her calendar and has called me at least once to make sure we were still going. We're going to see the lights and go to dinner. A big outing for her.
Today was an interesting day for the state of South Carolina. The Fourth District Court of Appeals denied the state's request for an emergency stay to prevent marriage equality in the state. The court also said the state had to recognize marriages performed in other states. This is a very bad day for Nicki Haley and our buffoonish Attorney General Alan Wilson. Both of them essentially wasted the states money fighting a losing battle. I have a hard time believing that their fight was anything but a show to ingratiate themselves to the conservative evangelical right and to further their political careers. In this they have won. This wasn't about the right to marry, this was about politics. I'm happy for my friends who are in SC. They can get married now and those that are married are officially recognized. I'm also proud of my church, the Unitarian Church in Charleston, for actively participating in the fight and for openly welcoming those in search of a wedding venue in a place where they can make that forever commitment.
My friend Sarah Familar-Ragsdale is planning on marrying people on Friday, November 21st 2014 at Washington Square Park. If you'd like her to officiate your wedding you can contact her at Sarah@LiveTheElements.com, or 843-729-3635. If you like to keep up with her in real-time like Elemental Weddings - Wedding Officiant on Facebook or on Twitter at Live The Elements. If something happens and they have to move they'll update Facebook and tweet their location. When you get to the park you'll see their sign. Best of all they are doing this as a give-back to our community so it's free!
Time to snuggle under the covers and watch a movie. Baby It's Cold Outside!
Todd
Friday, November 7, 2014
Seventeen Years and Counting
Matt and I have been together now for 17 years (actually 17 years in February, 2015.) It's been so long I have a hard time sometimes remembering what it was like when we weren't together. We've weathered a lot of storms together some that would have torn a lot of couples apart. This is not to say we're the perfect couple. We both have quirks that drive the other nuts but these things are quickly put aside and harmony returns. Matt has been decorating the trailer with pictures. One of them is a graphic that says "Home is wherever I am with you." My sentiments exactly.
Matt has an agent interested in his book (The Wide Night Sky) and she's requested some changes. This is a major step in getting his book published. We're both excited but cautiously so. He's working on the changes and hopefully the agent will be happy and they'll go onto the next step. I tease that when he's writing I become a writers widower. He likes to be alone when he writes. I can understand that. Peace and quiet—except for the fact he likes to work in places like Barnes & Noble or Panera. Hardly solitude. I seems to work for him so what can I say?
One of the camp hosts here has been on the road with her husband for the past 7 months in a big diesel pusher (think of it as a big bus.) I got to got to know her when we were making smores with the children at the campground's Halloween festival. She commented on how she was looking for ways to get away from her husband and have a little alone time. She couldn't imagine that Matt and I could be together in a 28 foot travel trailer (along with two dogs) for any length of time. We've been on the road for 5 months and so far we're good. It is a little crowded in the trailer and I think a bigger rig would make things easier but right now we're happy with what we have. We do perform the getting dressed ballet that each day when both of us are trying to get ready. The bedroom is pretty much all bed (no slide out there) so getting to our closets takes a little bit of taking turns and getting out of the way. But we manage. Sometimes the best thing to do is go sit on the couch and wait for the other to get done. Same goes for the kitchen. Only one person at a time in there. I see an upgrade in our future but for now we're here in Mabel Rubain and are happy. The semi plan right now is to get a new truck and maybe, after a while, invest in a 5th wheel trailer. There are several in the park here that look like they're set up for full-timing.
Matt has an obsession with small boxes which is good. Everything now has a nice neat place and the trailer is finally well organized. We're set up so well that hitting the road will be really simple. Not much packing (or unpacking for that matter). That is a full-timers dream. Get up, hook up and go.
We're planning on staying until the first week in January. I've been talking to the other camp hosts who have been here over the winter and they said it can get cold in the rig if you don't have a good heater. We have a nice infrared heater that keeps the trailer nice and warm as well as a gas fired furnace. My concern is the sewer and water pipes freezing. That would be pretty bad. The park has been out installing heating wrappers on all of the fresh water faucets in the campground. We'll need to add those to our bag of full-timer tricks. We'll have to wrap our hoses with heater wraps or we'll run into problems.
My job this week has been to clean the camp store at night when the store is closed and the only other person there is the night ranger. It's a pretty simple job. Dusting, sweeping, and mopping. It does't take long and I can do it at night which is really when I want to work.
My Friday night pizza and a movie with my Aunt Dee continues. We get a pizza and watch old movies together. We love to try and identify the actors that we see. She's pretty good with it. Some of the actors are a mystery to me so I end up looking them up on IMDB (Internet Movie DataBase) when we can't figure them out. It's a fun way to hang out with her for a couple of hours. We usually watch Turner Classic Movies. She really likes that.
We still haven't had our inaugural Hamburger-Helper Lasagna yet. Maybe this weekend I'll get around to doing that. Love some hamburger helper! I don't know why. I've had a hankering for some good chili in the crock pot too. Looks like we're going to finally fire up the stove. Hamburger-Helper here we come!
Matt has an agent interested in his book (The Wide Night Sky) and she's requested some changes. This is a major step in getting his book published. We're both excited but cautiously so. He's working on the changes and hopefully the agent will be happy and they'll go onto the next step. I tease that when he's writing I become a writers widower. He likes to be alone when he writes. I can understand that. Peace and quiet—except for the fact he likes to work in places like Barnes & Noble or Panera. Hardly solitude. I seems to work for him so what can I say?
One of the camp hosts here has been on the road with her husband for the past 7 months in a big diesel pusher (think of it as a big bus.) I got to got to know her when we were making smores with the children at the campground's Halloween festival. She commented on how she was looking for ways to get away from her husband and have a little alone time. She couldn't imagine that Matt and I could be together in a 28 foot travel trailer (along with two dogs) for any length of time. We've been on the road for 5 months and so far we're good. It is a little crowded in the trailer and I think a bigger rig would make things easier but right now we're happy with what we have. We do perform the getting dressed ballet that each day when both of us are trying to get ready. The bedroom is pretty much all bed (no slide out there) so getting to our closets takes a little bit of taking turns and getting out of the way. But we manage. Sometimes the best thing to do is go sit on the couch and wait for the other to get done. Same goes for the kitchen. Only one person at a time in there. I see an upgrade in our future but for now we're here in Mabel Rubain and are happy. The semi plan right now is to get a new truck and maybe, after a while, invest in a 5th wheel trailer. There are several in the park here that look like they're set up for full-timing.
Matt has an obsession with small boxes which is good. Everything now has a nice neat place and the trailer is finally well organized. We're set up so well that hitting the road will be really simple. Not much packing (or unpacking for that matter). That is a full-timers dream. Get up, hook up and go.
We're planning on staying until the first week in January. I've been talking to the other camp hosts who have been here over the winter and they said it can get cold in the rig if you don't have a good heater. We have a nice infrared heater that keeps the trailer nice and warm as well as a gas fired furnace. My concern is the sewer and water pipes freezing. That would be pretty bad. The park has been out installing heating wrappers on all of the fresh water faucets in the campground. We'll need to add those to our bag of full-timer tricks. We'll have to wrap our hoses with heater wraps or we'll run into problems.
My job this week has been to clean the camp store at night when the store is closed and the only other person there is the night ranger. It's a pretty simple job. Dusting, sweeping, and mopping. It does't take long and I can do it at night which is really when I want to work.
My Friday night pizza and a movie with my Aunt Dee continues. We get a pizza and watch old movies together. We love to try and identify the actors that we see. She's pretty good with it. Some of the actors are a mystery to me so I end up looking them up on IMDB (Internet Movie DataBase) when we can't figure them out. It's a fun way to hang out with her for a couple of hours. We usually watch Turner Classic Movies. She really likes that.
We still haven't had our inaugural Hamburger-Helper Lasagna yet. Maybe this weekend I'll get around to doing that. Love some hamburger helper! I don't know why. I've had a hankering for some good chili in the crock pot too. Looks like we're going to finally fire up the stove. Hamburger-Helper here we come!
Friday, October 24, 2014
Come On Get Happy
I just heard that song on iTunes and thought it described my feelings about the house closing. Yes! We closed on October 15th and we are now officially houseless and are loving it. No longer dealing with a monthly mortgage, crazy insurance people, pest exterminators, constant maintenance, and the task of mowing 5 acres every week throughout the spring, summer, and fall. We never really grew attached to this house the way we did the house in Los Gatos but we did have some great memories. My favorite were when Mom and Dad lived with us and when we had the big family reunions. We could sleep 10 people and during the reunions we had every bed filled. It was nice to have family together like that.
I've been working pretty hard in the park these last couple of weeks. I helped a host cut, split and stack wood. For those of you counting that was my 4th week working in the wood pit. I think next week I'm going to gracefully bow out of the wood pit for a while. Even in the cool weather you'll break a sweat stacking and hauling wood over to the wood shed. The good news is that it's great exercise and I imagine has been partly the reason for my recent weight loss.
The park has a Festival of Lights every year a week before Thanksgiving to the weekend after New Years. Starting in October crews put up light displays all over the park. Some are animated and others are just static lights. It looks like it's going to be beautiful. I hope we get some snow during the event. It will make everything that much more beautiful. The only downside is that we are pretty much stuck in the park the entire time the lights are on (4:30 PM or so until 10:30 PM) because the lines to get into the park and see the show are long. There is a secret entrance from the back of the park, through the soccer fields and down a dirt road that we can use -- if we can figure it out. I'm going to put the truck into 4WD and see what I can find. Should be some fun off roading at the very least.
I went over to stay with my favorite aunt last weekend. Her son and daugher-in-law needed to be out of town and didn't want her to be alone at night. We always have a great time together. It breaks my heart to see her losing her ability to get around. The body may be failing but she's sharp as a tack. She entertained me with stories about being a model in New York, being one of the women who smashed though the glass ceiling in her profession and how she did all of that while being a single mother raising two boys. She is an amazing woman. She also can't cook. While I was there she made a little snack for us before we had dinner. The snack was spinach ravioli that was microwaved so much the edges were hard and cold tomato soup to go on it. For all of her talents and know-how she has never been able to master cooking. I cooked dinner for us that night in self defense. I've always described her as a cross between Lucille Ball and Auntie Mame. That is not totally fair since I think she's a lot smarter than either of those characters but sometimes she is just like them. She really makes me laugh.
I've made good friends with the other hosts. We're a tight knit bunch - always ready to lend a hand to another host (that's how I end up in the wood pit so often). Since getting married I mostly refer to Matt as my husband and I have done so here with the other hosts. There is a lesbian couple here too who are also married. Even though most of the hosts are my age or older our acceptance has been complete. They refer to Matt as my husband too. The lesbian couple had an anniversary a couple of weeks ago and some the hosts decorated their campsite for the occasion. That's what I call acceptance. These are totally cool people.
The trees here are turning colors at an rapid pace. When it's sunny (like today) the forest we live in is full of colors. Due to my color blindness I can mostly see the yellows and sometimes the reds if they are solidly red and not too close to being brown. Every now and then I'l see an orange but I don't know if I'm really seeing orange or it's some other color that appears orange to me. In any case I have my own little world of colors that I am quite happy with. As an aside, most people with brown hair appear to have forest green hair to me. I know that people don't have forest green hair in the world of normal color vision so I call it brown. But it's forest green to me.
People have been asking what exactly do I do here at the camp to get our free site in the forest. I do a lot of things. As you all know I cut and stack wood, I keep the bathhouses clean, I police the campground and clean the cabins. It's a lot of manual labor and rather mindless. It keeps me outside a lot and I like that. Most of the time I put in my ear buds and listen to some good music while I work.
You may be wondering why would I give up my consulting practice and resort to being a camp host. To be clear I haven't given up my consulting practice. I have time during the day between my daily responsibilities when I work on Ocius business. I've written an article and have another I'm working that I hope will be published. I have an international client whose working time is about 8:00 PM my time so I can work with them in the evening and not interfere with my day job. Mostly I do this so we can be here in Northern Virginia close to my aunt for three months with a housing cost of zero. If I wasn't a camp host the fee for this wonderful spot in the forest with free electric would be $50/night. In addition to that I like the idea of being unplugged from the rat race for a bit. At the end of the day I walk back to the trailer, have dinner and don't think or worry about work for the most part. I have a lot of friends here who are doing the same thing -- unplugging for a bit. Taking a break. Reflecting on what comes next. I'm 56, my life is more than half over. Time to look at priorities.
Friday, October 10, 2014
Almost There
We got the notice yesterday that the closing on the sale our house would be today at 2:00 PM. We were ecstatic since we really thought the house would be taken before we could sell it but we prevailed with the expert assistance of our real estate agent Joseph Herrera. He really kept us motivated and confident that we could sell regardless of the issues we had in the house. If you need a real estate agent then you can't do better than Joseph. We owe him a debt of gratitude. If you are looking to buy or sell in the Charleston metro area call him. He's professional, hard working and knowledgeable. Unfortunately we woke up to an email delaying the closing until next week due to a paperwork snafu by Wells Fargo Bank. Hurry up and wait.
Life here at Bull Run has turned into a nice routine for my dear husband and me. We're parked in a forest which, when the shooting range (the park has a shooting range) isn't active, is very quiet and peaceful. We are under the flight path to Dulles so we do hear jets but if you know me you'll know that I don't mind that at all. When I'm out in the park working I love to see the variety of jets that are headed into Dulles. It's one of my things.
This has been my week cutting, stacking and transporting wood. Not my favorite thing to do, especially in the rain. At the end of the day we usually run some errands, grab a bite to eat, come home, and walk the dogs. Then it's an evening of reading and music or sometimes a movie on iTunes. I also have time to write -- like now. I'm just now finishing an article that I'm writing about a very esoteric process in healthcare information technology. It's off to my editor soon (Matt) and then hopefully to a trade journal or industry magazine.
We haven't had a TV since starting this adventure. We initially thought we'd have DirecTV in the trailer but we procrastinated and found out that we really weren't missing much so it never materialized. We were watching a lot of TV when we had it home. Now I get my news online from several different news sources so I scratch that news itch every day. I have to admit that I'm not missing TV for the most part. The shows that I do want to see are available on iTunes or streaming on PBS.org so I'm not missing much.
Our plan for using cellular modems for our Internet service hasn't worked out as well as we would have liked. We learned early on that streaming a TV show or two really ate up our allotment of gigabytes. We have two accounts now that we try and balance throughout the month. We need a better solution than what AT&T and Verizon offer. That's a work in progress.
Fall is bringing us cooler weather and rain and I'm loving it (as is Matt). We've already had a night were we had to fire up the furnace--which thankfully ran right off the bat without any need for adjustments. When it's running it sounds like a jet engine outside at the outlet port. We use propane fuel and the heater goes through it pretty quickly. I have a feeling we're going to be wearing warmer clothes in side to preserve our fuel. Nothing to drastic though.
As you know I work here at the park to pay for our site. I have to work 60 hours per month. We have rotating assignments each week. Last week I was on bath house duty. This week I'm working in the wood pile. It's a dramatic departure from what my career has been in the last 30 years. I'm joined by other senior executives and successful business people that are here in a variety of mobile-home based vehicles. We all live on the same street in the campground and I've made some friends who like me have escaped the 9-5 grind and are slowing down to enjoy their lives a little more. It's funny to be working alongside a former CEO cleaning the bath house or working in the wood pile with someone who ran a successful real estate business for 20 years. It's interesting that we don't introduce ourselves as a former CEO or real estate broker. We talk more about our lives outside of work, what brought us to this lifestyle and certainly little tips on how to made our jobs more efficient. It's fun and on top of it all I'm losing weight from all of the physical labor involved with my jobs. I guess the best part is interacting with the park visitors. I miss those customer service days that I had so much of early in my career.
Charlotte and Gracie are also into the grove. Charlotte is barking less at anyone or any vehicle that passes our trailer. That is a good thing. Gracie sleeps, eats and randomly barks. Last night she was standing at the food bowls barking because one of them was empty. She'll bark at the water bowl if it isn't full enough for her tastes. They are happiest when we're all here in the trailer and they can sleep next to us while we do our work.
The food here in Northern VA has been amazing. It's like an international smorgasbord. We've had Latin American food, Korean barbecue, Mexican food, good old American diner food and Indian food. We're planning on finding a Dim Sum restaurant soon. I'd also like to try some Spanish food too. The world is represented here and the restaurants reflect that. The only problem we have is deciding what cuisine we are going to try next.
I've managed to see my favorite aunt in the world several times since we've parked here in Northern VA. She was a very important person to me when I was a kid and has remained important to me all my life. Her health is failing but she's hanging in there. I'm glad we're close and can see her often. I've promised her that I'd make chicken and dumplings for her while I was here. It's my mother's recipe which I think was handed down to her by her mother. The dumplings are the size of an egg. Now that's what I call a dumpling--none of those noodled type of dumplings for me. I want those soft light big dumplings cooked in chicken broth.
I hope by the time I write again the sale of our house will have closed. Keep your fingers crossed for us.
Life here at Bull Run has turned into a nice routine for my dear husband and me. We're parked in a forest which, when the shooting range (the park has a shooting range) isn't active, is very quiet and peaceful. We are under the flight path to Dulles so we do hear jets but if you know me you'll know that I don't mind that at all. When I'm out in the park working I love to see the variety of jets that are headed into Dulles. It's one of my things.
This has been my week cutting, stacking and transporting wood. Not my favorite thing to do, especially in the rain. At the end of the day we usually run some errands, grab a bite to eat, come home, and walk the dogs. Then it's an evening of reading and music or sometimes a movie on iTunes. I also have time to write -- like now. I'm just now finishing an article that I'm writing about a very esoteric process in healthcare information technology. It's off to my editor soon (Matt) and then hopefully to a trade journal or industry magazine.
We haven't had a TV since starting this adventure. We initially thought we'd have DirecTV in the trailer but we procrastinated and found out that we really weren't missing much so it never materialized. We were watching a lot of TV when we had it home. Now I get my news online from several different news sources so I scratch that news itch every day. I have to admit that I'm not missing TV for the most part. The shows that I do want to see are available on iTunes or streaming on PBS.org so I'm not missing much.
Our plan for using cellular modems for our Internet service hasn't worked out as well as we would have liked. We learned early on that streaming a TV show or two really ate up our allotment of gigabytes. We have two accounts now that we try and balance throughout the month. We need a better solution than what AT&T and Verizon offer. That's a work in progress.
Fall is bringing us cooler weather and rain and I'm loving it (as is Matt). We've already had a night were we had to fire up the furnace--which thankfully ran right off the bat without any need for adjustments. When it's running it sounds like a jet engine outside at the outlet port. We use propane fuel and the heater goes through it pretty quickly. I have a feeling we're going to be wearing warmer clothes in side to preserve our fuel. Nothing to drastic though.
As you know I work here at the park to pay for our site. I have to work 60 hours per month. We have rotating assignments each week. Last week I was on bath house duty. This week I'm working in the wood pile. It's a dramatic departure from what my career has been in the last 30 years. I'm joined by other senior executives and successful business people that are here in a variety of mobile-home based vehicles. We all live on the same street in the campground and I've made some friends who like me have escaped the 9-5 grind and are slowing down to enjoy their lives a little more. It's funny to be working alongside a former CEO cleaning the bath house or working in the wood pile with someone who ran a successful real estate business for 20 years. It's interesting that we don't introduce ourselves as a former CEO or real estate broker. We talk more about our lives outside of work, what brought us to this lifestyle and certainly little tips on how to made our jobs more efficient. It's fun and on top of it all I'm losing weight from all of the physical labor involved with my jobs. I guess the best part is interacting with the park visitors. I miss those customer service days that I had so much of early in my career.
Charlotte and Gracie are also into the grove. Charlotte is barking less at anyone or any vehicle that passes our trailer. That is a good thing. Gracie sleeps, eats and randomly barks. Last night she was standing at the food bowls barking because one of them was empty. She'll bark at the water bowl if it isn't full enough for her tastes. They are happiest when we're all here in the trailer and they can sleep next to us while we do our work.
The food here in Northern VA has been amazing. It's like an international smorgasbord. We've had Latin American food, Korean barbecue, Mexican food, good old American diner food and Indian food. We're planning on finding a Dim Sum restaurant soon. I'd also like to try some Spanish food too. The world is represented here and the restaurants reflect that. The only problem we have is deciding what cuisine we are going to try next.
I've managed to see my favorite aunt in the world several times since we've parked here in Northern VA. She was a very important person to me when I was a kid and has remained important to me all my life. Her health is failing but she's hanging in there. I'm glad we're close and can see her often. I've promised her that I'd make chicken and dumplings for her while I was here. It's my mother's recipe which I think was handed down to her by her mother. The dumplings are the size of an egg. Now that's what I call a dumpling--none of those noodled type of dumplings for me. I want those soft light big dumplings cooked in chicken broth.
I hope by the time I write again the sale of our house will have closed. Keep your fingers crossed for us.
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